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Jay
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40 years old
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6'0 tall
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Lives in San Diego, CA
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Product Manager
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UK graduate
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Grew up in Kentucky
Connect Jay with a future partner and if they stay together for a year, you earn a reward!
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What makes
Jay Jay
Jay lived in NYC and Seattle before landing in San Diego. San Diego feels like home, if he enjoys spending time in NYC and Seattle, and is open to dating in either city.
Jay's personality leans playful, curious, and a little mischievous (i.e. he's more laid back than your average tech bro!)
Jay's weekends often involve morning golf, and cocktails or a new restaurant in the evening. He prefers relaxed weekends, rather than trying to fill every hour with an activity.
Who Jay is
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Women
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25 - 39 years old
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Any height
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California or Seattle preferred
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Educated, high-achiever, worldly, independent, busy, low-maintenance
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about Jay
Jay is drawn to women who are smart, ambitious, and have their own thing going on (he’s secure enough to find your career sexy, not intimidating!)
He had a short marriage years ago, learned from it, and moved on like a functional adult. No bitterness or unresolved drama, just perspective and emotional growth.
Jay loves kids, but doesn't want kids of his own, and seeks a partner who's on the same page.
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My name is Blaine Anderson, and I'm a matchmaker and dating coach. I've helped over 7,000 clients find love since 2020, and my work has been featured in the NYT, WSJ, and even on Shark Tank. Modern dating is broken. I started Bring Me Bae to help more singles find their person, and to empower everyone to bring more love into the world!

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FAQ’s

Bring Me Bae is a matchmaking service that enables anyone to be a matchmaker, and earn money by creating lasting relationships. Bring Me Bae’s single members post rewards to incentivize matchmakers (both amateurs and professionals) to propose introductions who might make great matches.

Anyone can be a matchmaker on Bring Me Bae. You can recommend friends who you think would be good matches for our members by tapping the “Set Member Up” button on any Bring Me Bae member’s profile. No matchmaking experience is required.

When you suggest a match, you’ll share background on yourself and your potential match. You can then share the Bring Me Bae member’s profile directly with your potential match, so they can decide for themselves if they’re interested in meeting the Bring Me Bae member. If your potential match is interested, they’ll share more about themselves, and we’ll propose the introduction to the Bring Me Bae member. If the Bring Me Bae member shares your match’s interest in an introduction, we’ll be in touch with your match to assist with planning a date!

Bring Me Bae rewards are paid to successful matchmakers once a Bring Me Bae member has dated your match for 12 months. We use multiple information sources to validate when rewards are earned, and we’ll be in touch to facilitate reward payment when we’ve confirmed a successful match. You can learn more about reward payments in our Terms of Service.

Bring Me Bae is free for matchmakers, and free for singles who want to be matched with Bring Me Bae members who’ve posted rewards. Bring Me Bae members who post rewards may pay a monthly membership fee, which covers the cost of Bring Me Bae’s service (e.g. recruiting matchmakers, vetting potential matches, coordinating dates, and building and maintaining the technology that underpins the service).

You can apply to become a Bring Me Bae member by tapping the Post Reward button at the top of this page. If we believe you’re a good fit for Bring Me Bae, we’ll help you create a profile and post your reward, so you can start receiving introductions from our community of matchmakers.

Yes, of course. If you’re single and spot a Bring Me Bae member you’d love to meet, you can apply directly to date them. You’re ineligible to claim a member’s reward when you apply to date a member yourself for obvious reasons, of course :)

Bring Me Bae is designed to help intentional singles find long-term partners. To prevent abuse, our team is actively involved in every step of the member onboarding and matchmaking processes. If we have reason to believe a member is using Bring Me Bae to find hookups, we’ll remove them from the service. If you believe a member is using Bring Me Bae to find hookups, contact us at [email protected], and we’ll investigate.

Contact us at [email protected], and we’ll be in touch ASAP.

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